The Dark Side of Hope: Why We Stay Too Long

The Dark Side of Hope: Why We Stay Too Long

Four and a half years ago, I wrote in my journal:
“I am done with the disrespect.”

A month later, I asked my fiancé to move out. Four months after that, we got back together.
Two months later, I married him. And it took another three years before I finally walked away for good.

I share this because it captures something most people don’t understand: we don’t stay—or go back—because we’re weak. We do so
because hope can be blinding.

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Resentment and Self-Betrayal: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself

Resentment and Self-Betrayal: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself

Resentment is one of those emotions that can quietly fester and grow, gradually eroding the foundations of our relationships and inner peace. Do you often find yourself feeling frustrated or hurt because your needs aren’t being met? Are you stuck in a cycle of disappointment, blaming others for your unhappiness while feeling powerless to change the situation?

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