You’re heartbroken— you’re not ready to call it quits. You’ve had time to think and reflect, and you just know that this time it could work out. You see your part, you’re clear on what you need to do differently and you just need one chance to show him that the two of you can fix this. It’s not too late. If only he could see that! But he’s not so sure. He’s ready to close the door on your marriage. So what can you do to get him back? What are the effective ways to help you never have to sign those divorce papers? And what are the wrong things to do that will get in your way of getting him back? In this post, I’m going to help you maximize your chances of reconciling with your husband.

Relationships are hard. Knowing how to effectively and happily exist in one is hard. And for this reason, I thank God for the experts in the world who conduct research and study couples and then make important connections and draw valuable conclusions to help us all out with this beautiful, confusing, and sometimes infuriating (what? Is it just me?!) thing called love.